It certainly is a dreadful feeling to lose a job, right? Anyone who has gone through such an experience claims it is unpleasant and stressful. If you are going through such a situation at the moment, do not lose hope!
Here are some suggestions on how to face the situation and make the best of it if you were fired recently.
WHAT CAN I DO?
Firstly, accept the situation. It is understandable if you do not like the sound of that, but as soon as you accept it, everything becomes much easier. The next step is to take a moment or two for yourself, not thinking about being fired, what caused it, what led to it, and what are the consequences. Just let it go, for a day or two if possible, and enjoy the activities you like. Talk to family and friends about any topic except your work. Shift your focus during these days on the things you have right now!
After that period, you might get a new perspective on what happened and why you were fired. If things have not changed much, it is fine. At least, you should be able to think clearly about it. Now, the next step is to understand that nothing is lost. What would you say if I tell you that your next job is going to be twice as fun, better paid, closer to your home, with better co-workers, and better work conditions? Would you accept that job and leave the current/past one? Probably yes, so believe that such job will come to you.
Staying positive and having a positive mindset about the situation is crucial. Remember, someone out there is looking for a person like you! Someone with your qualities, experiences, personality, background…
One last tip for all of you is simple – visualization. It is so easy and effective. Imagine your desired work position, see yourself doing that job, and observe the feeling while doing it. Limitations do not exist in visualization, so go for it!
After all of this, you know what is next – applying for new jobs. It can be frightening to think about it but do not worry. If you feel like you need help or an extra boost, career coaches can help you. If you feel ready, go for it! You have no idea how wonderful opportunities might come your way. Just be open to it, believe, and do not give up. Even if you hear no several times, YES will come, and it will be bigger than all those “no’s” combined. Stay positive, better days are ahead!
PROFESSIONAL CAREER SERVICES
Some people turn to career specialists right after they lose their jobs. They feel they can’t cope with writing a CV and a cover letter for the next chapter in their professional lives. Or they simply can’t think of anything appealing to write on their LinkedIn profile. That is completely fine! That’s why professional career services exist, to help you. For example, Linking Lines has helped countless clients to bounce back after they lost their jobs! We also helped a bunch of people get ahead and switch careers. Anything is possible if you want to believe it.
So, whatever the next step in your professional life is, be aware that you are not alone. There is help available and you should not be afraid to use it!